To create that all-important space, you’ll need to shift from a mindset of “doing” to one of simply “being.” Unfortunately, what often ends up happening is that we like a man so much – and want to make sure he knows we’re interested – that we inadvertently push into him rather than create the space where he feels pulled toward us. It makes them feel as if they’re consciously choosing you and winning something they worked for. This is what we think of as “the chase.” And men enjoy the chase. There needs to be some tension and the actual SPACE for him to move forward into that space. In order for a man to feel attracted to you and to pursue you, he has to feel “a pull” towards you.

What about when things start getting a bit more serious? Do you spend all your time thinking about him and ask him where things are going? WHAT MAKES A MAN PURSUE How about when you’re starting to see a particular man more often? Are you the one suggesting another date, calling him, and generally trying to keep things moving forward? Were you so eager to make a connection that you armed yourself with a bunch of conversation starters, jumped in whenever there was a tiny bit of silence, or generally tried to keep the ball rolling with him? Think about the last time you went on a first date. And we’re not even aware that we’re doing it. Sometimes, we want so much to let a man we know we like him – and make sure he doesn’t slip away – that we act in ways that actually PREVENT him from getting closer to us. In your efforts to let a man know you’re interested in him, you might actually be blocking his ability to get close to you!įind out why, and what you can do instead so that he naturally feels the urge to move the relationship forward. Here’s a great article by Rori Raye, my brilliant mentor and author of the amazing eBook, “Have The Relationship You Want” :

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